Is It Good|这么做过头了吗？

Is It Good

 to Show a Lot of Interest in Other People?

这么做过头了吗？

范文

　　I believe that showing interest in others is quite important. By expressing interest in others, you show them that you care about them and you want to know more about their lives. On the other hand, if you are indifferent to them, they will think you do not care about them or value their friendship. Being indifferent to people makes it difficult to develop good friendships and can lead to a lonely, boring life.

　　Although showing interest in others is important, people sometimes go too far. People don't like to be asked too many personal questions. For example, it is rude to comment on certain things like people's weight, how much money they make, or why they are not married yet. These topics can make people uncomfortable, and they might be offended by them. Therefore, it is important to remember that showing interest in people doesn't mean being too nosy. As long as you remember that you can be curious about people in a good way, you will certainly make many friends.

　　我认为对别人表示兴趣是相当重要的。藉由对别人表达兴趣，可以让他们知道你关心他们，而且你想对他们的生活有更多了解。另一方面，假使你对他们冷漠，他们会认为你不在意他们或不重视他们的友谊。对人冷漠会难以建立良好的友谊，还可能会造成生活孤独又无趣。

　　虽然对别人感兴趣相当重要，不过人们有时会做过了头。人们不喜欢被过问太多的私人问题。举例来说，对于某些特定的事情发表评论，象是别人的体重、他们赚多少钱或是他们为什么还没有结婚等，这是很没礼貌的。这些话题会让人感到不舒服，且还可能会冒犯到他人。因此，要记住对别人感兴趣并不代表爱管闲事，这点很重要。只要你记住可以用适当的方法对别人感到好奇，你肯定会结交到很多朋友。

 

进阶范文

　　Without question, it is far better to be interested in others than to show indifference toward them. Indifference should be reserved for people you either do not care about or dislike. The easiest way to make people not like you is to be aloof to them. If you think about it, you will realize that it is simple human nature. We like people who like us, and we are interested in those who are interested in us.

　　When displaying your sincere interest in people, it's vital to remember, however, that you should respect their privacy. You don't want your questions to be an intrusion that disturbs people. Before asking what might be a question that invades someone's privacy, try to put yourself in his or her shoes. That way, you can determine if you would want to answer a question like this. All in all, as long as you avoid sensitive subjects, showing interest in people is a superb way to develop good relationships.

　　毫无疑问地，对他人感兴趣远比对他们冷漠来得好。你应该把冷漠留给你不在意或不喜欢的人。让别人不喜欢你的最简单方法就是对他们冷漠。若你仔细想想，你将会领悟到这纯粹就是人性。我们都喜欢那些喜欢我们的人，且我们也会对那些对我们感兴趣的人产生兴趣。

　　然而，当你对他人展现真诚的关注时，要记住，你应该尊重他们的隐私，这是极为重要的。你一定不想要你的问题变成打扰到别人的一种侵犯行为。在提出有可能会侵犯到他人隐私的问题之前，试着设身处地为他们着想。如此一来，你便能判断你是否想要回答这样的问题了。总而言之，只要你能避免敏感话题，对人们感兴趣会是一个培养良好关系的极佳方法。